Homosexual is criminal

 

    In this global world ,a world that everyone is aware of social medias and a world that is associating with social networks.A world that everything can be controlled by the power of internet,then this is also the world that everyone is free to do each and everything saying that there is freedom.A world that a child can be born and as a meaning of coaxing then he or she could be given a phone.This is even a world that the opposition of good things is at very high rate than opposition in bad things.The world that goes against nature.A nature that holds the truth ,a truth that it is because of heterosexuality thus why we are born here.This is the world that is totally accusing some sad truths that it was with Adam and Eve that we are and not Adam and steve.

Things happen so differently now,and this is to this wide issue ,the issue of homosexuality,where as is the kind of relationship whereby a person is sexually attracted to another of the same sex.And this is what we call and say about LGBTQ

  What is LGBTQ?

LGBTQ,its initially word standing for Lesbians,Gays,Bisexual,Transgender and Queer.

Who are Lesbians? lesbians are homosexual women or girls.Means that women get into sexual attraction with their fellow women or girls

Girls in love relationship

Who are Gays? Gays are homosexual men or boys.Meaning that men get sexually attracted by their fellow men or boys.

men to men relationship

Speaking on the meaning of bisexual,this means the act of being attracted to same sex.

A transgender,Is a person whose gender identity does not conform to that sex they were assigned at birth

lastly is Queer,this is an umbrella that encompasses a wide range of sexual orientations,gender identities and expressions that do not conform to traditional societal norms regarding sexuality and gender.

  Historically;Queer was used as a derogatory slur against individuals who did not conform to heterosexuality.

In most African countries,homosexuality is against the traditional norms and culture of the society and therefore is total opposed.Though in western countries like US have just recognized their presence and have rights to each and everything.And they could even marry one another and their marriage could be officially announced by the priest in church

Currently we have seen even the marriage that took place in Boston,that was held in the church and the priest was there and they were going to be announced as husband s and wife but the lightning burnt the church and all whom were there.

   Massachusetts church that was hosting a same sex wedding ceremony.

So by this we get to know that homosexuality is supported to other countries .

In Africa homosexuality is seen as an evil,and once you be a homosexual person then one may face difficulties in many aspects of life.Ad it is even seen that being a homosexual person in most African countries is like being a criminal.

Many youths now in many countries in Africa have fall into this queer  relations of which its just said that the homosexuality is the impact of colonial intrusions to sub-saharan countries.So youths in Africa fall into this kind of relationship.

Why do youths in Africa fall into homosexuality kind of relationship?

- Many youths have been engaging in this kind of relationship due to the influence of social medias,Since some of the medias shows the context that may influence viewers' and hence viewers especially the youths decides to cope .Despite this also many youths own smart phones that would help them in having and watching movies in their phones but sometimes the movies are supporting the act and so youths cope and they therefore fall into homosexuality.

-Some youths thinks that the pain that they have been experiencing from a different sex relationship can be wiped away by having a same sex relationship and because of this many youths decide to be in homosexuality relations  as a means of escaping from pain.

-Escaping from things like unwanted and early pregnancies can make people to fall in this homosexuality.For example a girl may fear to have pregnancy in an early age and because he or she fears also to disappoint her family therefore she engages on homosexuality and becomes a lesbian.

    Because in Africa LGBTQ is a criminal and also is going against the traditions and customs therefore the homosexuals people face different problems.

 

Conditions that hinders the homosexuals                            in Africa

-In most of Africans countries ,if they once discover that you are the lesbian or a gay then you are segregated and even treated very inhumanity.Though in some places they can associate with you but in many places they neglect and see them as the curse who never have anything to plead but just die.

-In other African countries tend to take the laws on their hands like killing.So once they know you as a lesbian or a gay or even a supporter they may even kill you.For example ,The famous model and fashioner  in kenya known as Edwin Chiloba ,was found dead in a metal box and the reason that was held is that he was a gay activist.

A kenyan activist and a gay who was killed in kenya

-Also homosexual people in most African societies have ended up in jail and mostly are life imprisonment ,this is because they are believed to go against the africans traditional,customs and norms therefore even the countries' laws do not support thia and therefore they end up being imprisonment. For example in Tanzania has 

not abide with the laws upon supporting and giving rights to these homosexual people.

Moreover , we should never go against the nature.We all have rights to live whoever but never cast down the fact of nature whereas,the reality of nature is you and me.And therefore we are made and we are the outcome of Adam and Eve meaning a result of a man and a woman relationship and not a man to man or a woman to woman relationship.So this is what nature says and the sad fact is that even the holy books and the faiths are telling the fact that who we are and yet people are just going against them.

Though the homosexuality seems to be so crucial issue in Africa and most confusing thing then there must be more suggested ways to criticize it in a wisely way rather than killings and murdering them.

PETS

                           PETS  

Everyone has got that one animal to keep and feels geneorous to him or her .These are animals are called pets,they are animals that are kept by human being for companionship and entertainment.They are considered as a part of the family, there are common examples of pets like reptiles ,mammals ,fish and even insects.Good examples is dogs ,cats ,birds such as parrots ,also there are rabbits ,turtles,fish and even snake.

In most homes pets are the most wonderful experience,children are excited alot having a pet at home.Pets make sometimes teaches children loyality and respect .Many people say pets are just an animal,but am sure they never owned a loyal dog or a loving cat and their words couldnt further from the truth.Most pet owners will know how wonderful owning an animal could be ,they will understand the companionship and how beautiful bonds can be formed between an animal and human being.

                 Benefits of owning pets

The benefits of owning pets are endless,Pets like dogs,cats,fish,birds like parrots and turtles can have different features and interactions depending to their breed,so this how pets can owe pet owners 

1.Pets teach children life lessons

Life lessons include obedience,responsibility,trust,compassion,respect and patience.While pets offers this to kids also kids offers alot to pets in the family as well.So both kids and pets enjoy high energy and well as having a cuddle buddy during nap time.

2.Pets offers unconditional love

Pets are only kind that loves without conditions or without asking for anything in return.The main aim of pets is to make their owner happy .Forexample Dogs can wait patiently for you at home and ready to welcome you with a wagging tail or a purr.They only need to be loved back and be cared because pets like humble life which is out of frustration

3.Pets offers emotional support

Sometimes human beings are having particulary vulnerable needs or have special needs and so here comes when there is a certain dog breeds that are perfect in this.A dog or a cat can help when one is lonely and they can offer companionship because they can sit during the evening and someone can talk to.Pets are life saviours when it comes to depression and griefs time.Animals like dogs and cats have deeply calming effect on human being and they can easily pick up on owners mood. And sometimes pets helps in making fun during relaxation time when one is bored.

4.Pets helps people in social-interaction

Owning a pet like dogs can help in opening up to the world or coming into interactions with different people including the other dog owners and even walkers forexample when visiting places like dogs parks,people may interact there and so they socialize and get to know more about the pets life and other many things.

5.A pet can free you from problems 

Pets gives our lifes new meaning and purpose,they sometimes provide security and makes human being in a safe place.Its seen in daily life that the same pet kept in the house but can also be as a safe guard because pets like dogs do not entertain to new people and because of this they could bark and sometimes harm the stranger,so this also helps and acts as the main role that pets could owe to his or her owner.

6.Pets acts as beauty at home

Pets such as parrots ,fish and even snakes act as a beauty and increase an attraction at home.Its pleasing and very attractive when a home is not blunt and cool ,a home of nature is real amazing and so sometimes pets can make a good attraction in our homes

Despite the significant role that a pet owes to its owner but there are people are not even daring having a pet in their home.

Why do people escape keeping pets in their homes? 

Some people do not want to keep pets totally and when you try to investigate these are the reason behind;

   -Costfullness

Pets like dogs and cats are costfull when they require their veterinary care ,they sometimes have a health check ups and vaccines ,so because of this people escape keeping pets in their homes.Despite dogs and cats also fish can be more complicated because they need intensive care and when they fall ill it becomes so difficult.

    -Fear of allergies

Some families are allergic to hairs ,saliva and furs,this is especially to people with asthma and chest problems ,so they fear keeping these pets like dogs and cats because they may face more difficulties in their healthy matters.

  -Disturbed schedule

Dogs and cats have weird tendency of their substle sudden movement.They cant settle and stay cool but they could move here and there.So some people like coolness and quite place but because such pets could not allow a place to be quite therefore there must be some movements of which people may be disturbed.

  -Difficulties when travelling.

Travelling with pets is more difficult and therefore when you want them to stay or remain at home therefore you need to find someone to look after them at home.And also when you decide to travel with them then some troubles might occur because you do not know how will they react to new situations and because of this thus why people escape from keeping them.

No matter the circumstances that peta may pass or the pet owners have experienced but if one is interested in keeping pets then he or she will keep them.Owning a pet is a big commitment and owing them love is a big reward,pets like other members of the family needs love and care ,and so if one cant be able to offer them this then they can just leave this for those caring and loving people who could be responsible for these pets,it is believed that pet owners are among the loving ,caring and most responsible people existing in the world.

A pet owner feeding his young kit cat

Stable family

             

            

           STABLE FAMILY

Todays families are under different pressures,they come across different circumstances which in sometimes people give up and fed up.Sometimes there are endless conflicts and there are times when it is difficult be in one.Other times people decide to make wrong decisions without looking at the side-effects .

We live in a world that it is very trouble some in such a way that its very easy to get angry on such small issues and other times can be very huge matters but its easy to say for everyone who has got a knowledge its easy to cope with these situations rather than doing some unpleasing actions that will dissappoint many people.

Sometimes the misunderstanding in the families can lead to family separation whereas this has become a very common thing in most of families,This is because a family can not be together when there is no sense of listening each other,and because of this it creates hatred among the members of the parents.This hatred can even affect the entire life of the children,most of the time the conflicts and misunderstandings rise between parents and because of this some children in the family because of their way of capturing things therefore a child may rely on one side,either being at his or her mother's side or father's side something which is not pleased and not advised.

When there is family misunderstanding and you notice that its the issue between parents ,children are not supposed to rely on either of the side.Because sometimes you may not know who is the reason for all,also despite all a child is not supposed to interfere the parents misunderstanding because it may create some hatred between him or her with her parents and this is very unpleasing thing that most children do not understand and yet they decide to rely on either.If its parent misunderstanding then as a child or any member of the family should help out in sorting out the troubles rather blames which will never solve things out.

What are the reason for family instability?

Everything has its reason for its emergence or the cause for it,and this is likely to most family instability or misunderstandings in most African societies is accelerated by some reasons as follows

1.Infidelity

This is the most crucial reason that leads to family misunderstanding .It is believed that the only basis of seeking for divorce is when a partner or one partner is involved in extra-marital affairs,In this case the innocent one feels betrayed,rejected and worthless.He or she thinks of the way to handle the situation which sometimes is a blow to the family .

2.Interference of the in laws

Unity and solidarity matters alot in marriage ,for a marriage to last longer therefore the couple should be left alone to manage their own affairs and decisions for themselves.When we have constant interference it will give rise to misunderstandings .

3.Childlessness

In some families, the tendency of a woman to not have a child it often becomes a big problem that is totally  affecting the stability of the family.Because sometimes a father may want a family and so a mother would be able to bear children,so this will hinder the peace and stability of the family and so misunderstanding will happen.

3.Eonomic hardship

For a family to set up its plans ,there there must be a good economic condition.This is because Economic is the most priority in the family and so whenever there is economic decline therefore a family is meant to be self sufficient and thus cause some misunderstandings and endless quarels.

4.Loss of Job or employment

For a family to meet its financial needs therefore  when a parent loss his or her job then it totally affects the safe standard of living.

A father being stressed after a loss of job

5.Inadequate time for courtship

A couple that just have marriage so fast without having enough time for courtship or going for a marriage course and such they lack time the knowledge of each others and also they lack the information for the survival of their marriage and its prosperity.This situation may become so hard for them to live together.

Misunderstandings in the families are inevitable but atleast having a stable family can help in resolving these misunderstandings.Speaking of a stable family is a family that involves creating a nurturing and supportive environment for all family members through addressing challenges effectively and healthy relationships.

Here is how you should do to maintain these healthy relationships and making a family stable

As a family there should be effective communication;In most of the families there is no freedom to expression and because of this it hinders the family stability because it is pleasing being in an open family where people can express their thoughts and feelings in a non-judgemental environment.It is even making sense when people listen to each other and encourage dialogue because it minimizes misunderstandings and conflicts can be easily resolved

A stable family has got boundaries; In every how and any circumstances boundaries brings respect and prevents overstepping limits,there should even be a personal space and privacy this can sort out issues.Its pleasure meeting people in the family who respects and recognize the presence of everyone as a member of a family this helps alot,it is quit different from those without boundaries or limits because nobody will listen to anyone by thinking that he or she knows the best or is the brightest of all.

In todays busy world its easy to neglect spending time together.But the real thing is that spending time together as a family and sharing the lasting memories can help in strengthening families.Its enjoyable sharing experiences as a family like adventures a setting a dedicating time for meal,so having a quality time may build a stable family.Children in the family may not fear their parents and they could share their things with their parents easily as friends.

Conflicts are inevitable in every relationship but how they handle is what matters alot.Developing some resolution skills is something that avoids alot of miseries like separations of family.As a family member everyone has to understand on compromises and even finding win to win solutions whereas instead of coming up with the ideas of escaping from problems one must generate a skill that the problem should be solved.

Failure of this things to make or ensuring family stability therefore it causes instability  whereas family instability is refered to changes of parents' residential and romantic partnerships such as marriage,divorce and romantic partners move in or out of home.Family instability hinders the development of children behaviour in the family.

How does family instability affects children?

Since children relies on parents emotional support and stability so when there is instability 

Children may experience high level of stress and anxiety,this can manifest behavioural issues  like aggression.So family instability contributes to increase of risky behaviours during adolesense,this is because when there is no stability in the family therefore they decide to seek stability from external sources such as peers and risky behaviours such as drug use and even early sexual engagement.

young man using alcohol as a mean to stress freeing himself

Also it hinders child's academic perfomance forexample;frequent changes in resident can affect schooling and continuity also the stress can affect children concertration in learning activities.

Children will often have difficulty in socializing and expressing age-appropriate social behaviour

Also because of family instability a child may tell stories that are incosistent in an attempt to hide the instabilities and insecurities.

The children may face malnutrition and many healthy disorders like obesity and others because they will lack proper diet that will led to good wellbeing and healthy.

A child faces difficult in having his diet due to separation family and so he decides to m feed from the leftovers thrown.

Because instability in any form affects the children,however change is inevitable in life for all of us.Parents play a great a role to how children can manage the situations,the parents that keeps their mind in long term impact of how their behaviour can impact their children now and even in future are a step ahead in assisting  to have a positive future .

A stable family that can shape the positive behaviours of the children